Touring homes before you're pre-approved is one of the most common ways buyers waste time — or lose out on a home they actually wanted. Here's what's worth sorting out first, wherever you're shopping.
1. Pre-approval and pre-qualification aren't the same thing
A pre-qualification is a quick, informal estimate based on numbers you report yourself. A pre-approval means a lender has actually verified your income, credit, and assets and is prepared to lend up to a specific amount. Sellers and listing agents know the difference — a pre-approval letter is what gets your offer taken seriously.
2. Get the letter before you fall in love with a house
In a competitive market, homes can go under contract within days. Waiting until you find "the one" to start the lender conversation often means starting it too late. Getting pre-approved first means you can move the moment the right home shows up.
3. Ask what the pre-approval amount actually assumes
A lender's maximum approval number is rarely the number you should actually spend. Ask what property taxes, HOA dues, and insurance estimate they used to get there — and be honest with yourself about what payment you're actually comfortable with, not just what you technically qualify for.
4. Understand how long the approval — and any rate lock — is good for
Pre-approvals typically expire after 60–90 days and may need updated paperwork to renew. If you lock a rate, ask exactly when that lock starts and ends relative to your anticipated closing date, so there are no surprises if your search takes longer than expected.
5. A pre-approval doesn't obligate you to anything
You're not committing to a lender or a loan by getting pre-approved — you're just establishing what you can realistically offer. It's worth comparing more than one lender's terms even after you have a letter in hand.
Not sure where to start, or want a referral to a lender who's easy to work with? That's exactly the kind of question Rudy is happy to help with — no pressure, just a straight answer.
Talk to a lender. Rates, loan programs and approvals come from lenders, not from websites or real estate agents. Talk to your own mortgage broker, or use our preferred lender, Point Mortgage Corporation (NMLS #231073), at (619) 475-4095. You are always free to choose any lender you like, and you can verify any lender’s license at nmlsconsumeraccess.org.
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